Yoni Massage (for Women) is a Tantric erotic massage. One of many women’s favorite sexual activity. Yoni massage will greatly expand your sex life, bring you closer and give you a greater appreciation for women. Yoni (pronounced YO-NEE) is a Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as “Sacred Space” or “Sacred Temple.” Its meaning and use is an alternate perspective from the Western view of the female genitals (i.e., Pussy, Cunt, Twat, etc., words which may or may not be complimentary depending on the intent of their usage). In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is especially helpful for men to learn.The purpose of the Yoni Massage is the spiritual exercise that honors a woman’s sacred temple — theyoni. The objective here, is the woman (the receiver) torelax, and enter a state of high arousal and experience much pleasure from her Yoni. It is less about sexual orgasm, and more about building trust and intimacy with your partner, letting go of negativity, accepting the love and energy of your partner, fostering a deep trust and sense of equality and safety in the relationship, and connecting with a higher energy. Her partner (the giver) experiences the joy of being of service and witnessing a special moment. The Yoni Massage is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. When it’s not used as a spiritual practice, it is used by sex therapists to break down barriers caused by sexual assault and to heal and restore sexual power in rape victims. It is an educational tool for both men and women, helping women gain a more meaningful understanding of their bodies and teach men reverence for women’s bodies, encouraging them both to exist as equal spiritual beings.
The goal of a Yoni massage is not orgasm. Orgasm is a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is simply to please and massage the Yoni/vagina. From this perspective, both receiver and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving something. If and when orgasm does occur, it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed, to happen or not. It is also very important to not expect anything in return. Just allow her to enjoy the massage and to relax herself afterwards. Of course, if other sexual activity will follow, should be her choice entirely.
PREPARATION
Bathing is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and giver. A quiet place is preferable with soft music, candles, pillows, etc. or whatever makes the participants feel comfortable. Have plenty of time and do not hurry through the process. Go to the bathroom before beginning; avoid the unnecessary experience of interrupting the massage later. Connect with your partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other’s eyes for an extended time), or whatever you prefer.
The goal of a Yoni massage is not orgasm. Orgasm is a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is simply to please and massage the Yoni/vagina. From this perspective, both receiver and giver can relax, and not have to worry about achieving something. If and when orgasm does occur, it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Orgasm is allowed, to happen or not. It is also very important to not expect anything in return. Just allow her to enjoy the massage and to relax herself afterwards. Of course, if other sexual activity will follow, should be her choice entirely.
PREPARATION
Bathing is always helpful as it relaxes both the receiver and giver. A quiet place is preferable with soft music, candles, pillows, etc. or whatever makes the participants feel comfortable. Have plenty of time and do not hurry through the process. Go to the bathroom before beginning; avoid the unnecessary experience of interrupting the massage later. Connect with your partner by hugging, holding, eye gazing (looking into each other’s eyes for an extended time), or whatever you prefer.